Always strive for knowledge
Does one need philosophy to get on with life?
A philosopher is a person who doesn’t cry over spilt milk but he consoles himself over the fact that milk is actually 80 per cent water.
Sneak peeks, first looks
Like a swarm of locusts, they buzz into drawing rooms, cyberspace, TV monitors at malls and the multiplexes. The good ole trailers, once confined to the movie halls — now called promos — can make or break the biggest of blockbusters.
Battle insecurity to win in love
In love as in life, they say who blinks first loses. So how do you avoid blinking first in love? — A teenager.
I know what I want to know
For the kind of wisdom you seem to have, you must have gone through lots of hardships...
The opposite is true as only when you don’t feel the hardships can you analyse the situations and attain wisdom. People who feel the hardships just get bitter and frustrated and will remain failures.
The story of Nollywood
Believe this. The occult, the triumph of faith over evil, rough gangsters, and the scourge of terrorism, are Nollywood’s pet themes. Nollywood? That’s the name associated with Nigeria’s uber-booming movie industry.
Gain the power to defy desires
What’s there to know about the No? Among the most important virtues a teenager can possess, self-denial tops.
Difficult times strengthen you
I am living with a widow, who is HIV positive, and her two children since last few weeks. I haven’t told my family members about this as I have an unmarried sister and this may have a negative effect on her marriage prospects. After my sister gets married, I want to marry this woman. The two children are really affectionate towards me. They think of me as their dad and I too take care of them in the same way. We both love each other a lot. I feel guilty sometimes about hiding my feelings from my family. I keep thinking if society will accept our relationship. Please advise.
Raghuveer
Make a habit of being positive
I am an 18-year-old girl. I have completed my Inter second year in medical stream. I always wanted to become a doctor. The first time, I could not succeed in the MBBS exam, and took up a long-term course to give it another try. But I have lost the seat again by 10 marks and 30 ranks. I belong to the general category, there is no reservation for me. I am totally depressed. I’m even getting suicidal thoughts. Please advise.
Aastha
Learn, but never get taught
What is a woman according to you?
She is the greatest creation of God as long as she does not nag, does not tell you what to do, and does not expect you to talk after sex... Ahhhh! I was just joking. But seriously speaking, she is the epitome of gentleness, kindness and godliness.
Say ‘Yes’ to saying ‘No’
The most powerful word in any language is ‘No’. The difference between a ‘No’ and a ‘Yes’ is simply this — a Yes may have the power to make your life but a No has the power to prevent your life from being broken.
So a No is far more important than a Yes — for before you start to make your life, you have to stop it from being broken up.