Kiss and (don’t) tell
Do guys think it’s cool to brag about their sexual exploits, or is it in bad taste? Also, do they mind their girlfriends discussing intimate details of their relationship with her female friends? We find out what men think.
“I don’t kiss and tell, it just makes me uncomfortable,” says DJ Piyush Bajaj. “It’s something private that I never discuss even with my best buddies.” But there is no dearth of guys who do, he adds. “I’ve heard lots of guys talking about who they’ve ‘done’ and how many they’ve done. Not only is it disrespectful to women, I find that most of these guys are really frustrated losers.”
As for women sharing details with their gal pals, Piyush says, “I’ve never heard a woman bragging about her conquests. So it’s a totally different kind of conversation.”
However, actor Aditya Singh feels the rule applies to both men and women. The Sandalwood star states, “I never talk about the intimate details of my relationship with anyone no matter how close a friend. I respect and protect my woman’s privacy and I expect her to do the same for me because it’s something personal.” As for men who like to discuss their sex lives with other guys, he says, “I think most of them just lie about it. Men have a complex when it comes to this topic and I feel many of their stories are just that — stories, to project a stud boy image.”
However, model Zulfi Syed feels, to each his own. “Yes, men do reveal details about their sex lives, and so do women. In fact I think women talk about it more often, but I don’t think it’s a problem,” says Zulfi, who admits that he is in a relationship.
IT professional Rohit K sums it up saying, “Many of us can’t resist dropping the occasional hint or comment about our nocturnal pursuits but as long as it doesn’t hurt anyone, there’s no harm in it.”
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