With the newly won over legal nod, LGBTs are looking forward to a pink Valentine. Pink chocolates, salon specials, cards and queer nights are on the cards. The city is all set to woo gay couples. For same sex couples, this Valentine marks a silent revolution for the acceptance of their love.
Ranjan has always been silently celebrating his love for his beloved Vipin for the last three Valentines. The two would exchange roses, go for a quiet candlelit dinner and also enjoy some champagne. But the longing to be open about their relationship has certainly been there. They are still scared of going public about their love.
“Just because we are gay, we have to hide even on this day when everyone is celebrating love,” says Ranjan, 26, who’s in love with Vipin.
But like many same-sex valentines, the couple rejoices this day as a mark of change in the mindset of society towards LGBT romance. “We have confessed to a few of our close friends about our feelings. And we are overwhelmed by their affectionate response. They still value us as friends, and understand that at the end of the day we are just human beings,” adds Vipin.
About the change in the mindset of the society, gay rights activist, Mohnish Malhotra adds, “Pink money worldwide is huge and many Indian business houses are trying to tap into it now. It’s a good sign. A commercial aspect always helps you to understand the fact, that what was earlier a minority or unacceptable is now a booming industry. Thus, generating new businesses, creating newer target audiences will give gays the much-needed acceptance in society. Suddenly, everyone wants to woo them. People are offering tailor-made and bespoke services for LGBT communities. Be it travel, cards or chocolates. It definitely is a positive change.”
(Some names have been changed on request)